Would not the holiday season just odd if it was half the year? Celebrate the great holiday gift, then “return to work, you have 6 months until the new year of holiday -” Yick! There is something to have Christmas and Hanukkah stacked next to the New Year gives such a wait.
I guess it does not hurt that throughout our childhood life, the holiday season means not only gifts meant for two weeks of school time and recreation. For me, however, it was time with my extended family that made all the difference. He could celebrate the holidays with my immediate family of four, but there was something incomplete about not having full grandparents, cousins, arguments, laughter and fever everywhere. And the strange thing.
Now that all my grandparents and half my aunts and uncles have gone, I think my holidays (Thanksgiving) are really sad. In fact, I was afraid that both parties, I hope to put the tree and lights up until the last minute, I take as many concerts as I can keep busy, I refuse to send Christmas cards or Go to parties – fumiste! I realize that I cry in the story of “A Christmas Carol” and “The Grinch who stole Christmas. I will tell the characters of these redeeming stories. Strangely, I find that once I get the top of the Christmas tree with lights and all the paraphernalia, it seems to me that I should leave them up throughout the year because it makes the house so joyful .
So you say, “Mark, I’m confused or not like Christmas.” I say, I can not live without it. What made it so powerful for me, however has nothing to do with gifts or with lights: it has to do with the biggest excuses for a mass of family reunification no longer have. Therefore, when the holiday season turns, it hurts. It does not allow me to be simple either. Worse still, I live in Los Angeles, and like the rest of you, the angels, I do not even know my neighbors. The more I look, the more I find that many people feel the same as me. I hate that.
So now you say, “Okay, Mark, now I’m depressed too. Go to the “fix” part. You see, I am the “opportunity” to create miracles in the lives of others and if you use cinema, music or just a conversation, I like to inspire people to live a more powerful life. Unfortunately, to do this, I have to create miracles in my life first. Specifically, I turned the conversation I had parties: “The parties sadden me, I do extended family, hate holidays. Here is the document to be fixed:
To transform this holiday season, I recommend the following steps:
One: Distinguish the part of the holiday that makes you sad. Now, okay, this first step could be considered everything, but if you can not understand what “disempowering conversation” you the most difficult step of having a vacation, makes the transformation of their point of view Of the most difficult festival. It is possible that at first, achieving what makes the holiday brings sadder sadness. This really is a great sign because it means that you have finally allowed a healing achieved an injury that could not cure. Good work.